Let me take that back a bit. That's where I failed as an adult and until recently. When I was a kid, my ideas didn't require much money to start up (except that one where I had a legion of 1,000 adoring employees who made me cotton candy and flew my friends and I to all the finest amusement parks.). I'd create something and then recruit salespeople or organization members and have at it. No, none of these businesses landed me multi-million dollar success (obviously) or even much cotton candy (still sad about that). But I did it. And it was fun.
Somewhere along the way, I lost the part where I "just did it". I started thinking there were rules to this kind of thing: you had to be somebody or know people or have this-much-more-money-than-I-have to start a business. I had lots of business ideas that I worked out to the finest details and then put away, frustrated. I glorified young business owners but believed that they had some secret formula and knowledge that I'd never have. I started thinking of working for the government.
Yeah, dream crushing, eh?
One day I got tired of it. I knew one thing I'd always been praised for and I just started telling people I'd do it for them. People accepted. They told others. Others accepted. Everyone rejoiced. No secret formula, no cash flow genie.
One evening, at a party full of people I didn't know, I realized the roles had been reversed. The typical question was asked: What do you do for work? When I answered that I owned an organic bakery, the movie star stare came. Others in the vicinity drew close. I found myself surrounded by a small band of starers praising my ability to start my own business and whispering to each other how they wished they could do something like that. Feeling uncomfortable by the attention and slightly creeped out by the care-bear stare, I told them simply, "Then just do it. That's what I did."
The fan club quietly dispersed, shaking their heads. They didn't believe it was that simple. They wanted a secret formula, just like I had.
The moral of this story can best be summed up by an excerpt from a book written by a couple of guys I had the opportunity to listen to at a summit a few weeks ago:
Start the process of tinkering... start a new web site, a new marketing campaign, or a new Web community. Why? The answer, you will quickly come to realize, is that, with everything you decide to do, "it's so crazy that it just might work." Understand that failure is an inevitable part of the game, but that the chance of success is much greater the more often you roll the dice. You shouldn't fear it; you should embrace it.
-Chris Brogan, Julien Smith in Trust AgentsThrow away the notion of a secret formula. You just gotta do it.
Amen
ReplyDeleteThis is an amazingly inspirational post. Thanks for sharing it with us.
ReplyDeleteWe are so fortunate to have women like you in our community. Thank you for coming to the event and supporting the WTC.
Great post. I have the following quote posted in my office...
ReplyDelete"Most of us alive our lives as if we're watching a movie - one that someone else is writing, producing and direction. We sit back with our popcorn and jujubes and say, 'I wonder how this will turn out?' ... Well, guess what? The answer lies with you. You're Sam Goldwyn. You're in charge." - Gail Blanke
Megan: And again, I say, Amen.
ReplyDeleteMaile: Thanks for giving me the opportunity. It's a great organization and I look forward to more events.
Melissa: That is one great quote. Perfect. (do you have a blog?)
I agree with Maile, this is inspirational. I had a business I started with a friend right out of High School doing digital video and photography (this was before digital cameras of any sort were within the realm of the average person, mind you) but neither of us were sales savvy and it didn't last long.
ReplyDeleteSkip to today when I'm working on putting together the business part of the consulting I've been doing. The insipidness of this part of it is giving me second thoughts, but reading things like this give me that extra bump I need to keep going. So thanks.
great stuff, simple concept yet super compelling! thanks!
ReplyDeleteEnjoyed your post.
ReplyDeleteI’m going to start an online church. And care bears will be in the choir.
ReplyDeleteVery eloquently stated. Being an entrepreneur takes guts, which is why more people don't just do it.
ReplyDeleteGina, as I was reading this I was rembering back to the 4th grade when you had started our "New Kids on the Block" club. You always have had fabulous ideas and I often wish I could be as creative as you. I'm glad your bakery is going well! Jen Opp
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