Avalanches & Life

From CBS News: Ajai Sehgal, with King County Search & Rescue, works a staging area near Stevens Pass, WA

Last night and this morning I received texts and messages from friends who were writing to inform me about the loss of friends they experienced from the avalanche near Stevens Pass, Washington yesterday. All were expert skiers and well-known to the ski community. The slide swept up twelve skiers, killing three. A fourth, professional skier Elyse Saugstad, was saved only from the use of an avalanche airbag.

The twelve skiers were all used to the terrain and were highly skilled and trained in avalanche danger. The area was right outside of a popular ski area and safety precautions were taken. Yet, in a flash, mother nature let go of a deep slab of snow that swept the victims over 1,500 feet down the mountain.

News like this reminds me how much we affect each other's lives. Among the victims were good friends of my friends. My pain is not as deep as those who knew the victims, but it is heartfelt for my friends, even bringing tears to my eyes when they told me how they were feeling. One friend in particular related how he was just talking to one of those lost in the avalanche two days ago. Then, he was gone.

This just got me thinking about how we're connected by relationships. And it's the relationships of true friends and family that matter most. But too often people look for those who will do the most for them or bring them the furthest in their life's dreams, leaving those who actually care by the sidelines until they are needed again. But it's all the people who have supported you and encouraged your dreams- who believed in you at all times- that matter. They are the ones who were there to smooth the rough spots of your life. They are the shoulders you cried on when things seemed lowest. They searched for answers when you thought you had none. They have been there all along. The others come and go, flickering flashes in life. Man, hold on to the ones who are the constant lights!

The point is, life is short, and that's reality. Live your life for the right priorities. Show others you care, show compassion for others' feelings.  If there is someone in your life who has stuck things out, been through thick and thin with you, forgives your shortcomings and always has your back, make sure you respect them. That is rare.  Don't take those who have proven their friendship and love for granted.

When they are gone... they are gone.

My heart goes out to all those who lost their true friends and family members in this tragic accident. I know those who lost their lives were cherished from all the amazing words I have been hearing from their friends. Please, everyone, be careful out there.